Cynthia ♥ Veronica ♥ Alderman

1936 - 1995
LocationCardiff South Wales
Age58 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth02/11/1936
Date of Death01/07/1995
Visitors10,108 since 17/03/2007
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My wonderful mum Cynthia Veronica
Born 0n 2nd November 1936 and died on 1st July 1995 aged 58yrs.

It was the saddest day of my life and I'll never forget her taking my hand as she drew her last breath. She left behind a loving husband who sadly died just 8mths later from a broken heart. She also left her five children...Christine, Martin, Janet (me), Mark and Johnny. My brother Mark couldn't cope with our parents death and committed suicide??? in Oct 96 aged just 24yrs. She had seven gorgeous grandchildren ~ Samantha, Wayne, Louise, Sarah, Craig, Amy and Paul who she adored. Since her passing I've had two more children, Callum and Abbie. My son Wayne has had four gorgeous children too, Ryan, Jessica, Charlotte and Daniel. My mum would have adored these children as she did the others and it saddens me that she never got to meet them although i know she often visits them especially Ryan.
My mum had suffered with cancer for many years but fought it with every ounce of strength she had, even when she was in a great deal of pain she refused to let it beat her. On 28th June she insisted i take her into town shopping even though at this time she was very weak. She wanted to buy everyone a parting gift, something that we could all treasure. After the shopping trip she went downhill very fast and the following day she went into a semi coma. I'll never forgive myself for taking her out that day even knowing it was what she wanted. On 1st July i had a call at 8am from my dad saying mum wouldn't last much longer so i rushed up to their house. As i got out of the car i heard my mum calling my name for the very last time, sadly she fell into a deep coma and never opened her eyes again. We as a family took it in turns to sit with her throughout the day and talk to her about whatever came to our minds but avoiding the inevitable. At 15.02 i sat beside her and said the hardest thing that will ever come from my lips,
"Mum it's time you went to meet your dad and be free from the pain you're suffering"
She lifted up her hand and found mine and slipped peacefully away at 15.03pm. We always talked about her dying and i asked if i could be there holding her hand when the time came and she granted me that wish and i hold those precious last moments with her close to my heart.
Mum my love for you will never falter and you'll remain in my heart until we're reunited.
Sleep peacefully my angel xxxxxxxx

♥♥♥ Reunited with her precious daughter Susan who passed with cancer aged just 2yrs ♥♥♥


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~♥ With Love ♥~

Oh most beautiful star
In the sky tonight
You are most bright
I watch and wait
With hand raised up
Open and waiting
Slowly, oh so slowly
You move through
The night sky
You come closer
As I watch and wait
Hand outstretched
Then ever so softly
You come to rest
In the palm of my hand
You shine like a diamond
Your brilliance
Holds me in awe
I could almost wish
To hold you tight
To keep you safe just for me
In time, your light
Would fade from sight
You would die
To me and to all
So I let you stay
As long as you wish
With palm open
So you may leave at will
You will travel back
To the night sky
To shine brightly
For all to see
I will cherish
The moments you gifted me
With your light
Specially for me
For a little while…
Star So Bright

by Ann Marquette

Sending you lots of love angel and a big thank you to your loved ones for all they have done for my little princess demi-leigh and myself in the last year...HAPPY NEW YEAR XXXXX
Love alway elaine xxxxxx

♥ Happy heavenly new year ♥

As you know mum, since you left i've not celebrated new year as we always saw it in together with the kids but this year because i've gone through so much in 2011, i've decided to go out and enjoy myself. I know you'll be happy for me but although i might be doing things differently this year, you're in my thoughts and so are the happy memories we once shared on this night.
I love you with all my heart mum and you live on in that special place that is yours and yours alone.
Have a wonderful new years celebration in heaven mum. ♥xx♥xx♥

Jan Lush (Daughter)

4 weeks ago

Merry christmas xx

Merry Christmas Cynthia xxxx xxxx

Danni Fulker (Family Friend)

December 24, 2011

♥ Merry Christmas Mum ♥

Oh how you loved Christmas Mum, the shopping, cooking and having your family around you, how i miss not coming to you for our delicious dinner with all the trimmings but the precious memories i have will never be forgotten.
Have a lovely heavenly Christmas Mum.
Love you all the world ♥xx♥xx♥

Jan Lush (Daughter)

December 24, 2011

FOREVER MY MUM.......
க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ
I MISS MY MUM MORE THAN ANY WORDS CAN SAY
I STILL LONG TO FEEL HER ARMS AROUND ME EVERYDAY
MY MUM LEFT SO MANY TREASURES BEHIND FOR ME
THEY ARE WORTH MORE THAN GOLD THEY ARE HER LEGACY
க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ
MY MUM WOULD BE THIER TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO
WHEN I WAS CONFUSED OR DID NOT HAVE A CLUE
SHE WOULD SMILE WITH A TWINKLE IN HER EYE
MUM BRUSHED AWAY MY TEAR DROPS WHEN I USED TO CRY
க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ
WHEN I GRAZED MY KNEE MUM COULD KISS IT BETTER AND SMILE
MY MUM MADE EVERY MOMENT IN LIFE SO WORTHWHILE
HER LOVE AND HAPPINESS ALWAYS BROUGHT ME JOY
MY MUM WOULD BAKE ME A CAKE OR BUY ME A NEW TOY
க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ
I REMEMBER EVERYTHING MY MUM DID NOTHING WOULD GET HER DOWN
SHE ALWAYS WORE A SMILE ON HER FACE NEVER A FROWN
MY MUM MADE ME INTO THE PERSON THAT I AM TODAY
MY MUM WAS SO SPECAIL IN EVERY SINGLE WAY
க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ க-ڿڰۣ
I SHALL ALWAYS MISS MY MUM SO VERY MUCH
I WISH I COULD ONCE MORE FEEL HER LOVING TOUCH
MUM SHOWED ME EVERYTHING THAT I NEEDED TO KNOW AND SO MUCH MORE
FOREVER MY MUM THE ONE THAT I SHALL ALWAYS LOVE AND ADORE......
copyright© rosalind Roberts 31/10/2011

Broken Hearted Mum (Friend)

November 3, 2011

Where are you mum when i need you more than ever? I thought you said that you'd always be around me but where are you? Where are the signs that you're about? This psychic thing must be a load of crap, if it existed than you'd be by my side where i need you right now. :'(

Jan Lush (Daughter)

August 15, 2011

~~~~~TO A PRECIOUS ANGEL~~~~~

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~ Gods Golden Door ~
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Will i always feel like this
That life is so unfair
Im so sad and so lonely
When i need you,youre not there

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Nothing can ever change this
For time is moving on
Now all i have are memories
Happy days now long gone

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All the love you gave me
I keep deep in my heart
For sure i know that one day
We will make a brand new start

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You know just how im feeling
So ill say nothing more
Just be there to guide me
Walking through Gods golden door
~ Copyright� Vicky Deaville 28/4/2011 ~

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With Love Always Elaine .xxxx

Xx Elaine Xx Demi-Leighs Auntie Xxx (Friend)

August 12, 2011

IM SO SORRY IM LATE CYNTHIA XXXXXX

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â¤.... ✣...THINKING OF YOU CYNTHIA ON YOUR ANGEL DAY XXX... ✣ ... .â¤

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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Stay close to all your loved ones ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ For its you they miss and love ⋱♰⋰


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copyright ~ Vicky Deaville 18/10/09

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Love always to you Cynthia and all your loved ones xxx elaine xxx

Xx Elaine Xx Demi-Leighs Auntie Xxx (Friend)

July 3, 2011

♥ Love and miss you Mum ♥

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FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS!
Goodnight sweet dreams xxx

Jan Lush (Daughter)

July 2, 2011

SAFE IN OUR HEARTS.........
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
I KNOW THAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE LOST ME BUT THAT SIMPLY IS NOT TRUE
I AM ONLY EVER A HEARTBEAT AWAY I AM WATCHING OVER YOU
WHEN YOU ARE FEELING LONLEY REMEMBER ME AND SMILE
REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE SHARED EACH MOMENT WAS WORTHWILE
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
TRY NOT TO CRY TEARS OF SADNESS I AM WITH YOU EVERYDAY
FOR I AM TUCKED SO SAFE IN YOUR HEART AND IN YOUR HEART I STAY
MY SPIRIT STAYS ON EARTH THINK OF ME WHEN YOU SEE FLOWERS IN BLOOM
OR WHEN YOU YOU LOOK AT THE SKIES AT NIGHT I SHINE BRIGHT BESIDE THE MOON
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
I AM EVERYWHERE YOU LOOK SEE THE BIRDS THAT FLY SO HIGH
MAYBE TODAY YOU WILL HAVE THE PLEASURE OF A VISIT FROM A BUTTERFLY
THIER IS SO MUCH BEAUTY AROUND YOU OPEN YOUR EYES AND YOU WILL SEE
THAT THEY ARE GIFTS THAT SURROUND YOU GIFTS THAT ARE FROM MORE THAN ME
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
ALL OF US ANGELS HAVE OUR WAYS OF LETTING YOU KNOW WE ARE NEAR
WHEN IT IS YOUR TIME TO JOIN ME I SHALL ALL BE WAITING RIGHT HERE
DO NOT WORRY AT ALL FOR I AM STILL WITH YOU ALL THE TIME
I WILL AWAYS BE TUCKED SAFE INSIDE YOUR HEART JUST LIKE YOU ARE TUCKED SAFE IN MINE....
copyright© Rosalind Roberts 15/6/2011

Broken Hearted Mum (Friend)

July 1, 2011
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