Cynthia ♥ Veronica ♥ Alderman

1936 - 1995
LocationCardiff South Wales
Age58 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth02/11/1936
Date of Death01/07/1995
Visitors7,009 since 17/03/2007
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*** PLEASE READ ***
A HUGE THANKYOU TO EVERYONE WHO CONTINUES TO LIGHT CANDLES ETC FOR MY PRECIOUS ANGELS. LOVE TO YOU
AND YOUR ANGELS ALWAYS XXX


My wonderful mum Cynthia Veronica
Born 0n 2nd November 1936 and died on 1st July 1995 aged 58yrs.

It was the saddest day of my life and i'll never forget her taking my hand as she drew her last
breath. She left behind a loving husband who sadly died just 8mths later from a broken heart. She
also left her five children...Christine, Martin, Janet (me), Mark and Johnny. My brother Mark
couldn't cope with our parents death and commited suicide??? in Oct 96 aged just 24yrs. She had six
gorgeous grandchildren ~ Wayne, Louise, Sarah, Craig, Amy and Paul...The first four are my children
and the other two are Christines. Since her passing i've had two more children, Callum and Abbie. My
son Wayne has had three gorgeous children too, Ryan, Jessica and Charlotte. My mum would have adored
these children as she did the others and it saddens me that she never got to meet them although i
know she often visits them especially Ryan.
My mum had suffered with cancer for many years but fought it with every ounce of strength she had,
even when she was in a great deal of pain she refused to let it beat her. On 28th June she insisted
i take her into town shopping even though at this time she was very weak. She wanted to buy everyone
a parting gift, something that we could all treasure. After the shopping trip she went downhill very
fast and the following day she went into a semi coma. I'll never forgive myself for taking her out
that day even knowing it was what she wanted. On 1st July i had a call at 8am from my dad saying mum
wouldn't last much longer so i rushed up to their house. As i got out of the car i heard my mum
calling my name for the very last time, sadly she fell into a deep coma and never opened her eyes
again. We as a family took it in turns to sit with her throughtout the day and talk to her about
whatever came to our minds but avoiding the inevitable. At 15.02 i sat beside her and said the
hardest thing that'll ever come from my lips "Mum it's time you went to meet your dad and be free
from the pain you're suffering" she lifted up her hand and found mine and slipped peacefully away at
15.03pm. We always talked about her dying and i asked if i could be there holding her hand when the
time came and she granted me that wish and i hold those precious last moments with her close to my
heart.
Mum my love for you will never faulter and you'll remain in my heart until we're reunited.
Sleep peacefully my angel xxxxxxxx



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~ In My Mind (by Jenn Farrell) ~

Somewhere in my dreams tonight
I'll see you standing there,
You look at me with a smile
"Life isn't always fair."
You say you were chosen for His garden
His preciously hand picked bouquet,
"God really needed me
That's why I couldn't stay."
It's said to be that angels
Are sent from above,
I've always had my angel
Whose heart was filled with love.
Wherever the ocean meets the sky,
There will be memories of you and I.
When I look up at that sky so blue,
All I see are visions of you.

"While there's a heart in me, you'll be a part of me."
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Mel Xxxxx August 10, 2009

my rock

my rock Sometimes I catch myself
Thinking, "When I phone,
I can talk of this or that!"
Then remember, I'm alone

you was always there
To answer my calls -
To listen to my "small talk"
Or when I climbed the walls.

At times, I didn't feel like talking
And somehow, you understood -
you Didn't say you wished I'd call
Or make me feel like I should.

Now, I wish I would have
More times, to show I cared -
To say, just how important
Were, all those times we shared.

I could have shown my love
So much more than I did -
I never, did it enough
Even when I was a kid.

Now it's too late to do or say
All those things I wish I had -
No way to ease the pain inside
When my heart is sad.

you was my "anchor" to this life -
The "rock", that I clung to -
The place, where I could turn
When, nowhere else would do.
Now, the ravages of time
Have worn my "rock" away -
And all I have to cling to
Are memories of yesterday.

with love theresa xxx

Theresa Waters (GTS Friend) August 8, 2009

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♥ The Promise ♥
(by Diane Robertson)

Of angel wings and heavenly things
There’s very little known,
For those who have the answers
Are, forever, from us gone.
Life in the hereafter,
In faith, I must accept;
Thoughts that trouble not the people
With families still intact.
But, those of us who’ve travelled
Down the lonely path of grief,
Are forever seeking answers
To the riddle, which is life.
We trek through shadowed forests
Past the ugly shroud of death,
Toward a promise for the future
Of a kinder, better place.
So, we look to see the angel wings
And listen for the hymn
That God will send to guide us
When we leave to be with Him.

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Mel Xxxxx August 5, 2009

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❁ The Tapestry of Life ❁
(Author Unknown)

"Tis said that old Time is a shuttle,
Swift weaving the web of our days;
In and out fly fast speeding moments
Thro' the warp and the wool of earth's maze.
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At times all the colors seem sombre,
Again there are dashes of bright;
Anon all life's threads knot and tangle,
And only defects meet our sight,
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Full often we stand and in wonder
We gaze at the unveiling loom,
Which hides the design of the fabric
Until we have reached the dark tomb.
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Only this do we know that the groundwork,
Thro' which the bright colors are twined,
Is woven of charity's fibers,
Which serve the threads closely to bind.
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And when the last thread has been broken,
And the loom is forever at rest,
We shall see that our life's great Designer,
Knew what for His children was best.

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Mel Xxxxx August 1, 2009

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♥ REMEMBERING ♥ (Author Unknown) ♥

♥ There will come a day
♥ when your tears of sorrow
♥ will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
♥ and your heart will begin to heal itself...
♥ and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
♥ and you will hear the whisper of hope.
♥ There will come a day
♥ when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
♥ as a sunshower of the soul...
♥ a turning of the tide...
♥ a promise of peace.
♥ There will come a day when you will...
♥ risk loving...
♥ go on believing...
♥ and treasure the tears of remembering.

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*** Love to you and your Angel from Mel. ***

Mel Xxxxx July 27, 2009

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High Flight.

Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings.
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun split clouds - and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of; wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hovering there
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air;
Up, up the long delirious burning blue
I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace,
Where never lark nor even eagle flew;
And while, with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, un-trespassed sanctity of space
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.

(by John Gillespie McGee)

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Mel Xxxxx July 25, 2009

♥ A SHINING STAR ♥

When I had to leave you
I didn't go too far
Look up to the Heavens
I’m a Brilliant shining star

May this light show you
As it glistens from above
A very special thank~you
When you lifted me with love

A little star that brightly shines
A star that’s free from pain
Held gently in God's loving arms
Until we meet again

As you go on your journey
Be the best that you can be
And know that God is there for you
As he is here for me

When we miss each other
And what each other near
You shine your light upon the earth
And I'll shine my light up here

So we will always remember
When we seem so far apart
To shine our lights together
With love upon our hearts

Gordon-Sams Family (Close Friend) July 25, 2009

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When we are in need of comfort
We walk down memory lane,
There we see you smiling
We talk with you again,
And as we wander slowly back
We seem to hear you say
Don't grieve. don't cry, my family,
We'll meet again some day.

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Carol Gerry X Spud (Friend) July 21, 2009

♥═══♥ Tears.♥═══♥

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Tears are delightful expressions
Of happiness, sorrow, and love,
Made to release deep emotions,
A special gift sent from above.
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When seeing sweet thoughts of a loved one
Midst memories of days of old,
A tear finds a cheek in the moonlight
As thoughts reach deep in the soul.
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In moments of anger, frustrations and grief,
When happy thoughts flee like a thief,
Running away with our hopes and our cares,
A tear brings welcome relief.
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If unwanted sorrow consumes us
And life seems so hard to bear,
With time a soul is healed,
Restored with the help of a tear.
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Sun and beauty bring health to the soul
Through all of the days of our lives,
Deepest feelings of thanks are expressed
Through tears which appear in our eyes.
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Be grateful for tears for their presence
Restores our most glorious thoughts
Of laughter, compassion and loving,
The most precious gifts of all.
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BY:Jack Larsen, Plover, Wisconsin.

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Cathy Kerr Mum Of Graham (Friend) July 19, 2009

ღ♥ღ♥ღ♥ღ In Peace Go Home ღ♥ღ♥ღ♥ღ
Alan Pemberton

Through veils of peace may you ascend
To promised planes above
Where comfort shall await you
In those summerlands of love.

Although my grief is deep and raw
Although my pain is great
I know that you are still with me
I know that you will wait.

For in God's time we'll meet again
Of this I am quite sure
I loved you so much on this earth
In absence even more.

Mel Xxxxx July 17, 2009
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