Cynthia ♥ Veronica ♥ Alderman

1936 - 1995
LocationCardiff South Wales
Age58 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth02/11/1936
Date of Death01/07/1995
Visitors7,011 since 17/03/2007
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*** PLEASE READ ***
A HUGE THANKYOU TO EVERYONE WHO CONTINUES TO LIGHT CANDLES ETC FOR MY PRECIOUS ANGELS. LOVE TO YOU
AND YOUR ANGELS ALWAYS XXX


My wonderful mum Cynthia Veronica
Born 0n 2nd November 1936 and died on 1st July 1995 aged 58yrs.

It was the saddest day of my life and i'll never forget her taking my hand as she drew her last
breath. She left behind a loving husband who sadly died just 8mths later from a broken heart. She
also left her five children...Christine, Martin, Janet (me), Mark and Johnny. My brother Mark
couldn't cope with our parents death and commited suicide??? in Oct 96 aged just 24yrs. She had six
gorgeous grandchildren ~ Wayne, Louise, Sarah, Craig, Amy and Paul...The first four are my children
and the other two are Christines. Since her passing i've had two more children, Callum and Abbie. My
son Wayne has had three gorgeous children too, Ryan, Jessica and Charlotte. My mum would have adored
these children as she did the others and it saddens me that she never got to meet them although i
know she often visits them especially Ryan.
My mum had suffered with cancer for many years but fought it with every ounce of strength she had,
even when she was in a great deal of pain she refused to let it beat her. On 28th June she insisted
i take her into town shopping even though at this time she was very weak. She wanted to buy everyone
a parting gift, something that we could all treasure. After the shopping trip she went downhill very
fast and the following day she went into a semi coma. I'll never forgive myself for taking her out
that day even knowing it was what she wanted. On 1st July i had a call at 8am from my dad saying mum
wouldn't last much longer so i rushed up to their house. As i got out of the car i heard my mum
calling my name for the very last time, sadly she fell into a deep coma and never opened her eyes
again. We as a family took it in turns to sit with her throughtout the day and talk to her about
whatever came to our minds but avoiding the inevitable. At 15.02 i sat beside her and said the
hardest thing that'll ever come from my lips "Mum it's time you went to meet your dad and be free
from the pain you're suffering" she lifted up her hand and found mine and slipped peacefully away at
15.03pm. We always talked about her dying and i asked if i could be there holding her hand when the
time came and she granted me that wish and i hold those precious last moments with her close to my
heart.
Mum my love for you will never faulter and you'll remain in my heart until we're reunited.
Sleep peacefully my angel xxxxxxxx



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I am now in Heaven,
The gates have opened wide,
And now I have the privilege
Of walking by His side.
The angel choir is singing
And the music is so sweet;
I'll join them just as soon
As I have worshiped at His feet.



I am now in Heaven,
The blood washed throng is here;
I recognize a lot of them,
There's not a single tear.

There's joy beyond description
And reunions by the score;
There'll be no more separations,
For we'll be here evermore.



I am now in Heaven,
Please wipe away your tears;
I've fought the battle, run the race,
And I'm rid of all my fears.

There is no pain or sorrow here,
The heartaches now are past;
I've read and sung of Heaven,
And now I'm here at last!



I am now in Heaven,
And oh, this place is grand!
No one could have ever told me
Of all the beauty in this land.

Since I cannot describe it,
You'll have to come and see
That it was worth the many trials
To live here for all eternity!


~ Author Unknown ~

Carol Gerry X Spud (Friend) July 16, 2009

♥ I asked God for a flower, He gave me a garden.
♥ I asked God for a tree, He gave me a forest.
♥ I asked God for a river, He gave me an ocean.
♥ I asked God for the world, He gave me you.
♥ My heart is lost to you, always and forever.

Mel Xxxxx July 15, 2009

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Im giving you this message & it’s sent from god above
He says that he is with you & he’s sending you his love.
Im to tell you that your loved one is not that far away
She’s waiting up in heaven where you’ll unite again one day.
Do not stop the tears you cry for there sent from god above.
They are not a sign of weakness, but a representation of your love.
Each tear is filled with memories of a time that you both shared
So when a tear runs down your face, gods reminding you they’re there.
That’s why at night when your alone & you toss & turn to sleep
That the pain inside overwhelms your heart & it cuts so hard & deep.
If you stop & look inside your heart, it’s not the pain you bear,
It’s all the good times god let you have & allowed you all to share.
Death is a graduation of life on earth & the memories are the tears.
Each tear represents a moment in time that will last throughout the years.
Now close your eyes & be at peace & know you’ll meet again.
God love’s you so , He wont let go & his grace will never end.

Carol Gerry X Spud (Friend) July 12, 2009

☆•☆ A MESSAGE FROM YOUR ANGEL ☆•☆

♥ I'd Rather See You Smiling ♥
( Alan Pemberton)

You must not think that I have gone
Please don't grieve or pine
I'd rather see you smiling
Laughing - working - looking fine
Death is an exciting key
Which opens many doors
It leads us into other worlds
Quite similar to yours
Life is not an accident
Death is not the end
God designed a mystery
Life and death do blend
So do not think that I have gone
Please don't brood or pine
I'd rather see you smiling
Laughing - working - looking fine


☆•☆ A TENDER REPLY ☆•☆

♥ I Promise ♥
(Author Unknown)

I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
I promise I will remember
How to live and how to play.

I promise that I'll dry my tears
When the heartache goes away.
I promise that it won't take years
But I need another day.

I promise that I'll live my life
As you would want me to.
I promise when I'm facing strife
I'll face it straight and true.

I promise I will endeavour
To do the best I can each day.
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.

Mel Xxxxx July 9, 2009

For Cynthia xx

You were & still are a special person & the ones who cared & loved you will always love you & your always in their thoughts
Love Danni xxxx

Danni Fulker (Family Friend) July 1, 2009

♥ ♥ 14yrs without you :-(

To some you may be forgotten mum but in my heart you'll live on until we're reunited. In the 14yrs since you closed your beautiful eyes, not a day has gone by without me thinking of you.
Sleep tight mum and i'll see you soon in that gorgeous place called heaven.
Love you always xxxxxxx

Jan Lush (Daughter) July 1, 2009

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The years will fall like autumn leaves upon her memory.
The touch of Time will ease the heartache, gently, tenderly...
It cannot always be like this; the agony will cease.
And I, resigned, shall find at last - my healing and my peace.
There comes a time when grief must end and sorrow pass away.
Never will she be forgotten - but there'll come a day -
when I shall remember her without a stab of pain -
happy in the secret knowledge that we'll meet again.

(Patience Strong)

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Mel Xxxxx June 25, 2009

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Im no longer by your side,
But theres no need to weep,
Ive left sweet recollations,
Im hoping you will keep.

Eternal joy & memories,
Stay in our hearts forever,
Strengthening our special bond,
That parting cannot sever.

So now it’s time to journey on
Just let your faith be strong,
For I am in a better place…
Im home where I belong.

But, still, if times of loneliness
Bring sorrow & dismay,
Don’t dispair ,for I am there…
Just a memory away.

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Carol Gerry X Spud (Friend) June 25, 2009

♥═══♥ Life is a Journey ♥═══♥

Birth is a beginning
and death a destination
And life is a journey:
From childhood to maturity
and youth to age;
From innocence to awareness
and ignorance to knowing;
From foolishness to desecration
and then perhaps to wisdom.
From weakness to strength or
from strength to weakness
and often back again;
From health to sickness
and we pray to health again.
From offence to forgiveness
from loneliness to love
from joy to gratitude
from pain to compassion
from grief to understanding
from fear to faith.
From defeat to defeat to defeat
until looking backwards or ahead
We see that victory lies not
at some high point along the way
but in having made the journey
step by step
a sacred pilgrimage.
Birth is a beginning
and death a destination
And life is a journey;
A sacred journey to life everlasting.

(Author Unknown)

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Mel Xxxxx June 10, 2009

~~~~~~~~~Angel Friend~~~~~~~~~~~

I have a friend that’s an angel
But, this is what I find
She’s lots of fun and silly
Quite an unusual kind

She makes me laugh
When I feel sad
And helps me get over it
When I get mad

Serious, when she must be
But, lighthearted lots of the time
Her halo is a little crooked
That’s OK, so is mine

Yes, I think you really are an angel
Angels are perfect, you see
And no matter what, from day to day
You’re always a prefect friend to me!!

Love always Sam, Gordon, Jimmy and Charlie xxxxx

Gordon-Sams Family (Close Friend) June 10, 2009
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