| Location | Cardiff South Wales |
| Age | 58 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 02/11/1936 |
| Date of Death | 01/07/1995 |
| Visitors | 7,010 since 17/03/2007 |
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*** PLEASE READ ***
A HUGE THANKYOU TO EVERYONE WHO CONTINUES TO LIGHT CANDLES ETC FOR MY PRECIOUS ANGELS. LOVE TO YOU
AND YOUR ANGELS ALWAYS XXX
My wonderful mum Cynthia Veronica
Born 0n 2nd November 1936 and died on 1st July 1995 aged 58yrs.
It was the saddest day of my life and i'll never forget her taking my hand as she drew her last
breath. She left behind a loving husband who sadly died just 8mths later from a broken heart. She
also left her five children...Christine, Martin, Janet (me), Mark and Johnny. My brother Mark
couldn't cope with our parents death and commited suicide??? in Oct 96 aged just 24yrs. She had six
gorgeous grandchildren ~ Wayne, Louise, Sarah, Craig, Amy and Paul...The first four are my children
and the other two are Christines. Since her passing i've had two more children, Callum and Abbie. My
son Wayne has had three gorgeous children too, Ryan, Jessica and Charlotte. My mum would have adored
these children as she did the others and it saddens me that she never got to meet them although i
know she often visits them especially Ryan.
My mum had suffered with cancer for many years but fought it with every ounce of strength she had,
even when she was in a great deal of pain she refused to let it beat her. On 28th June she insisted
i take her into town shopping even though at this time she was very weak. She wanted to buy everyone
a parting gift, something that we could all treasure. After the shopping trip she went downhill very
fast and the following day she went into a semi coma. I'll never forgive myself for taking her out
that day even knowing it was what she wanted. On 1st July i had a call at 8am from my dad saying mum
wouldn't last much longer so i rushed up to their house. As i got out of the car i heard my mum
calling my name for the very last time, sadly she fell into a deep coma and never opened her eyes
again. We as a family took it in turns to sit with her throughtout the day and talk to her about
whatever came to our minds but avoiding the inevitable. At 15.02 i sat beside her and said the
hardest thing that'll ever come from my lips "Mum it's time you went to meet your dad and be free
from the pain you're suffering" she lifted up her hand and found mine and slipped peacefully away at
15.03pm. We always talked about her dying and i asked if i could be there holding her hand when the
time came and she granted me that wish and i hold those precious last moments with her close to my
heart.
Mum my love for you will never faulter and you'll remain in my heart until we're reunited.
Sleep peacefully my angel xxxxxxxx
marion(emma lyttle,phyllis mckenna)
My mother kept a garden, a garden of the heart. She planted all the good things that gave my life its start.
She turned me to the sunshine and encouraged me to dream, Fostering and nurturing the seeds of self-esteem.
And when the winds and rains came, she protected me enough— But not too much because she knew I’d need to stand up strong and tough.
Her constant good example always taught me right from wrong— Markers for my pathway that will last a lifetime long. I am my mother’s garden; I am her legacy. And I hope today she feels the love reflected back from me
Thankyou
Thankyou to everyone who has taken the time to visit my mum's site to leave messages and light candles, your comforting words mean a great deal to me.
My mum was one of the best and was always there for her family and friends, even when she was very ill with the cancer that took her from us. I still need my mum but i would not wake her to suffer the pain she went through, but she left me with wonderful memories and therefore will live on in my heart.
God bless you all xxxx
A very special thankyou to Dana who visits as often as she can, i really appreciate your thoughful words to both my mum and brother. xxxx
RIP
Rest in peace, i had to turn the music off as i started to get a lump in my throat as i read through the first paragraph, i am sorry to hear about your loss['s] i lost a good friend of minee a few weeks ago called daniel cardwell he drowned :( And then my football coach passed away them my mums friend just two days ago then my art teacgher yesturday so its been hard since daniel (Danson) died he has engraved his name in my heart forever and i cant imagine how you[s] feel but i am very sorry. Just Remeber the good tiimes. Its Hard but it does get easier i promise :)! RIP Cynthia Veronica Alderman
Hello
How are you mum and how is the family?
I've had some bad news recently about my precious grandson Ryan (Rhino as he's lovingly known as ). His mum has phoned to say that he has now been registered as partially sighted, i knew he had problems with his eyes mum but finding out he's partially sighted is breaking my heart. I remember when he was little i used to tell him off for sitting too close to the tv, now we know why and i feel so guilty. Please watch over him mum and ensure everyone understands his problems, especially his teachers who seem to think it's right putting him at the back of the class when he can hardly see and then telling the poor mite off for not doing his work properly. Grrrrr i wish i lived closer to him so that i could deal with the situation better. Ryan and Jess are coming down in the summer holidays and i can't wait as it's been a very long time since i saw them last, although i do speak to them on the phone.
Please could you also watch over Sarah for me as she is ill at the moment and although she's been in hospital with the problem, no-one seems to know the cause. She is really stressed out at the moment with personal problems and i hope that you can guide her in the right direction.
Give everyone my floaty kisses and hugs mum.
Love and miss you all so very very much. xxxxxxxx
Forever missed and longed for always
Nan i wrote this poem for you, grampy, Mark and Steven i hope you like it...
Why did you have to leave?
Why did you have to go?
We miss you all each and every day,
and we still love you so.
Nan, on July 1st (95), you grew your wings,
after many years of pain.
When the angels took you from us,
We knew life would never be the same.
Then Gramps you followed on in february,
Nans death had broken your heart,
you had to be with your wife again,
Couldn't stand to be apart.
In April then we greived again,
after the tragic loss of our step-dad,
Many times we spent with you Steven,
Were the best we ever had.
October came with more sad news,
Our Uncle Mark had died.
Knowing that you had also left,
tore us up inside.
We lost you all so close together,
words will never explain how we felt,
Too lose four very special people,
But thats the hand fate dealt.
We hope your now all feeling better,
And no longer in any pain,
But rest assured our darling Angels,
We will all meet again.
Copyrighted by author Louise Brown
Please say HaPpY BiRtHdAy to grampy for me and tell him i hope he has a lovely day in heaven. xxxxxxx
I love and miss you nanna
I miss u each and every day of my life, i think of all the good times we spent together and cherish my memories. I havent got many memories of you as you were taken away through gods gate when i was young. I hope grumpy and uncle marky are looking after you! love you with all my heart and always will. sleep peacefully nanna.
x x x
thankyou Janet
Hiya Janet thankyou so much for your message on my Ian's page...I am so sorry about your mum and your brother love you have survived so much loss love, its heartbreaking. I must admit I am not coping so well with the loss of my son, blaming myself, the health authority, my ex, his ex...the list is endless and i get so angry which is the worse!!....but its 6 months on and im still here so i must be coping eh. It would be great to make contact with you ...your mum looked like the sort of mum that everyone would love!
If you would like to chat on messenger or chat by email or on the phone any is fine by me... take care,
love sheila xx
so so sorry xxx
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
(Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!
Happy Mothers Day Nan
Happy Mothers day too you nan.
I know your looking down on us from heaven and are with us each and every day guiding us and keeping us safe.
I miss you each and every day nan, especially on days like today when you should be here surrounded by your loving children and grandchildren, even great grand children now.
The times we spent with you gave us wonderful memories of you too cherish our whole lives, I just wish we didnt have too look too those memories or pictures too remember your beautiful loving smiling face, if i could have one wish it would be to spend another day in your company, feel your hugs, experiance your loving kisses and too hear your soft voice once again.
Nan I love and miss you, you meant the world to me.
Hope your having a great day up in heaven with uncle marky and auntie Susan at your side, and Grampy in your arms.
Love and miss you always and forever, until the day we meet again
RIP ANGEL
xxxxxxxxx
hugs from heaven...I am so sorry about your sad losses, my son too tookhis own life, take care xxxx
Hugs From Heaven
by Charlotte Anselmo
When you feel a gentle breeze
Caress you when you sigh
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From a loved one way up high.
If a soft and tender raindrop
Lands upon your nose
They've added a small kiss
As fragile as a rose.
If a song you hear fills you
With a feeling of sweet love
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From someone special up above.
If you awaken in the morning
To a bluebird's chirping song
It's music sent from Heaven
To cheer you all day long.
If tiny little snowflakes
Land upon your face
It's a hug sent from Heaven
Trimmed with Angel lace.
So keep the joy in your heart
If you're lonely my dear friend
Hugs that are sent from Heaven
A broken heart will mend.
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